
Grief Tending
Individualized sessions to support and help you to cultivate inner witness, ground the body,
and regain steadiness when the world feels rocky.
Bringing grief and death out of the shadow is our spiritual responsibility, our sacred duty. By so doing, we may be able to feel our desire for life once again and remember who we are, where we belong, and what is sacred.
—Francis Weller
The Wild Edge of Sorrow:
Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief
Individuals who:
Have experienced personal loss, in the recent or distant past
Are awakening to ancestral or Earth grief
Are in need of giving voice to their sorrows
Are ready to come into a different relationship with grief
Feel their grief seems “too big” for their friends or family
Your grief is welcome here
GRIEF TENDING IS FOR…

If you are interested in booking a session to see how we might work together, please complete the confidential Pre-Session Questionnaire linked below.
We work slowly, at the soul’s pace
'Slow' and 'down' are modes of the soul; they are connective modes, ways of keeping connected to oneself and to one’s environment. Slowing downwards' refers to more than simply moving slowly, it means growing down towards the roots of one’s being. Instead of outward growth and upward climb, life at times must turn inward and downward in order to grow in other ways. There is a shift to the vertical down that re-turns us to root memories, root metaphors, and timeless things that shape our lives from within. Slowing downwards creates opportunities to dwell more deeply in one’s life, for the home we are looking for in this world is within us all along. The lost home that we are seeking is ourselves; it is the story we carry within our soul.
—Michael Meade
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Grief tending is an offering where a Grief Tender listens deeply to, witnesses fully and holds space for the grief of a group or individual.
We have inherited cultural practices where we privatize grief and isolate grievers, leaving them stranded in a liminal and vulnerable state. As we (Sacred Grief Work) answer our calling to tend grief, we would like to think we are part of a movement that is building bridges to a future where our culture remembers its capacities to honor and hold grievers with care and dignity.
Grief Tending is not therapy, though its impacts may be described as therapeutic.
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Grief Tending Sessions are open to individuals navigating any form of grief, not just those who have lost loved ones. Our intention is to support all sources of loss and grief, from acute personal losses to Earth grief and ancestral loss.
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We provide a 30-minute introductory call, free of charge. The purpose of this call is to see if we are a good fit and whether grief tending is what you need right now.
In order to make the most of this time, it is helpful for prospective clients to fill out a confidential Pre-Session Questionnaire. This is not required.
If we feel that we are a good fit, we will book time on the calendar for the first 75-minute session. Based on the pricing tier you select, we will provide you a payment link for the session. The session is booked when the payment is received.
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All sessions are 75 minutes in length.
A session typically begins with a short guided meditation to “clear off the road dust” and get us firmly rooted in the present.
We then make time for deep listening, to understand what is stirring in your heart.
We may do some practices to support neuro-regulation and calming. We might also discuss writing practices and strategies to give space to your grief between sessions.
We are not trying to fix your grief, but to witness it and give it space to breathe.
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We have instituted a Pay What You Can pricing model to help everyone access this important work, regardless of financial ability to pay. This pricing model is inspired by the Green Bottle Model from Worts + Cunning.
After our initial 30-minute discovery session (at no cost to you), if we decide that this work would support your grief process, you will indicate the price point that you are able to pay.
Please read through our recommendations below for how to decide which price to select.
$$$ Top Range - $250 per 75-minute session
The highest price tier for Grief Tending Sessions reflects the true “fair market value” of the work. This price does not reflect paying extra.
We recommend paying this price if you:
are financially secure
have personal savings
own property, or
are not worried about how paying for the retreat will impact your ability to spend money on other things
$$ Middle Range - $150 per 75-minute session
The middle option for Grief Tending Sessions is a discounted price.
We recommend paying this price if you:
have access to steady income and your basic needs are met
are working to pay off debt or build savings
are not harmed by paying this amount, but you may have to cut back on discretionary spending, such as going out to dinner or buying new clothes
$ Low Range - $100 per 75-minute session
The lowest price for the retreat is a further discounted price.
We recommend paying this price if:
you have access to basic needs
your financial situation feels tenuous, or
you would have to save up for many months to be able to afford a higher price point
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We will send you a calendar link to schedule.
Sessions are pre-paid when booked.
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We require 24-hours’ notice to cancel individual Grief Tending Sessions.
In order to book time, we require a payment at the time of booking. If you cancel within the 24+ hour window, your payment will be applied to your next session.

The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.
Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
—Khalil Gibran